Thursday, October 20, 2011

Relationships

Looking at life and all the things that factor in brings this question to mind. I often think of how the world use to be and what it has come to. Now with that being said the heart is fragile like a glass vase. In the hands of the wrong one and its broken. Two, we as humans love to have our cake and eat it to. Which thinking with common sense isn't that how its suppose to be? The black culture we love to "keep it real". Really how real do we really keep it? What about when keeping it real goes wrong? So let's touch on what is the hardest thing to keep real "Relationships". Now for me I like to be open on where I am in life and where I'm trying to go. What I'm looking for and letting this happen naturally. I seems that women aren't patient and they want things when they want it. Not all but quite a few. See most will say they understand how you feel and can accept it in the beginning thinking they can change your mind. Not true!! That feeling is still there even though we maybe closer to one another. Then when you feel its time for it to happen there is a rush. Big mistake to think or feel that way. That is a flaw we have involving relationships. Rushing into things not getting to know one another or still having a sercet life behind the scenes. Deceivers and liars always form but if God isn't in the relationship how could be real? If the relationship is built off of what you buy for someone verse the mental aspect how can it survive? It won't because when hard times hit there is no mental stability just money and sex. Look the divorce rate is too high and money can't buy you love. My parents have been together for over 40 years I see the struggle and the love. I see how the hard times hit but it still survives. What is love? Do you believe in it? I do just learn from past encounters because experience is the mother of knowledge.

S/O to my lil sis Javetta Allen Mercadel she got me started on this and she is a dope writer. Check her out she's deep!!