The definition of a rollercoaster is to go up and down; rise and fall. The definition of emotional is showing or revealing very strong emotions. The R& B artist Vivian Green expressed this very thought in a song. Lyrical content of this song was exactly the definition of these two words. In her song she states " Yesterday I told myself I was gonna be ok. Gonna start a new day, be truly happy I was gonna take control of me." Wow see how love is such a powerful tool that causes so many reactions to certain circumstances. In this blog we will discuss the highs and lows, the emotional reaction, and how to handle things in the future.
1st with anything we do in life there are highs and lows to it. How can something that makes you so happy can make you so sad? How can someone you care about so much rip your heart apart? To answer the 1st question we are human whatever high you get in life and some point it must come down. The gravity is the force of attraction by which terrestrial bodies tend to fall toward the center of the earth. When someone is high off of crack and some point they must come down. More so like crashing more than anything from being so high. Thats were the saddness hits so hard from being in love. This once so caring and giving person who had you on cloud 9 has crushed and destroyed what y'all had.You can't fly forever but you can always get back up there.
Secondly, the emotional reaction of situations either leads to a person not dealing with you anymore or cause big trouble for you. How so B-Bailey? Well I'm glad you asked. So your feelings are hurt from this loving person were you feel like you will feel better when you destroy something this individual loves and own. Pay back, revenge is sweet, or feel my pain. No no no this can cause the Laws to come into your life and now you are dealing with this issue or your ex for another year. Some people will go as far as killing their own kids or mate's kids. Love will have you wasting your time in court, spending money a lawyer, lose someone or something and seeing this person's new mate support them. Its just not worth it just think before you act. I know its hard when all you see is red.
Finally, the best way to handle all of this is to put this battle in God's hands. He heals all and covers all wounds. Even tho some wounds need stitches, some hearts are shattered, or you emotionally destoryed God can fix it. Trust in Him you don't have go thru things alone when he is on your side. I have a tattoo on my chest that reads " IN GOD I TRUST". Fresh off of the dollar bill but it says we and everybody doesn't believe that. Believe in God's divine intervention and His ability but, remember to be patient. God may not come when you want Him but He's right on time. If you ask Him for what you need I know the Lord will answer.
These be my thoughts be blessed love y'all B-Bailey!!
