Is it the ratio? Is it the dream? I ask these questions because I'm often left confused. Some women just simply look to move too fast. Hey there are some men too who are the same way. Everything that is done slower always comes out better. For example, you are in the kitchen frying some pork chops. You are in a rush so you have the fire higher then it should be. Next thing you know your chops look like its cooked from the burned corners. You take a bite of it and it starts to bleed. Its nasty no one wants to eat with the fear of being sick. So a week later you are in the kitchen back at it again. You place the pork chop in the pan fire is much lower and it takes twice as long to cook then it took the 1st time. Its good tasty and cooked right. I feel the same way about love, relationship, life.....
So that brings me to this question why rush? I know emotions is a beast when its all said and done. Take your time read into what you are getting into and think. We as men need to take time to think about situations we put ourselves in. I feel everything that is done in a natural way is real. Its not altered by man or influenced by mental conversation. There is this unwritten book that most men have not read yet. Rules and guidelines that were created by women not all but for some. If you don't then don't think I'm talking about you.
Ok now ladies you try to rush things at times. Some guys give you expectations in the beginning but the mistake is that you think you change him. You can't, he will only change what he chooses to change. If you are patient and understanding it will take you a long way. You just may find the one you are hoping for and vice versa for him. The less pressure on him the better the chance is for you.
Words of Wisdom
B-Bailey
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